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Person helping another climb a mountainI have compiled all of the essentials that I have learned from my own and others’ experiences in my book, videos, and articles, all of which you can find here completely for free. Many people have asked me for my personal guidance and support along their journey, however, so I offer several ways to work with me here. Whether you just have a few questions you can’t find answers to anywhere else, you want to speak with someone who understands what you’re going through, or you need practical concrete methods to stay porn-free and recover from porn-induced problems, I’m here for you. If you have any questions about coaching options, feel free to email me at

One-On-One Phone Coaching Sessions

I can consult with you via phone or video call on any aspect of recovery from porn addiction and/or porn-induced sexual dysfunctions, including general self-development and navigating intimate relationships. I’m here for your benefit. I will help answer your questions, clarify your goals, and make progress toward whatever outcome you want. Select an option below for phone/video coaching and I’ll email you within three business days to schedule a time to talk within the following two weeks. Often people start with one foundational session and we decide together from there how often to meet in the future, but if you know you want ongoing support I offer bundles of 3 sessions for a discounted price ($100 off). I’ll also ask you to write me about your background, your goals, and what you’d like to get out of our sessions before we start.

Available Phone Coaching Options

Custom Coaching Plans

While some people only need one or a few sessions in order to set themselves upon the right path to reach their goals, others require more consistent and/or structured support along their recovery journey, which I also provide. This in-depth recovery program consists of shorter (20-25 minute) weekly or bi-weekly calls and various modules that can be reorganized and employed according to each person’s individual interests and needs. Weekly topics/themes can include self-reflection and goal setting, the science of addiction, proper use of willpower, effective habit-building, socializing and dating, rewiring, finding community/support, structuring a porn-free life, handling relapse, and more. The schedule is flexible, and it’s likely that we’ll spend several calls on the particularly important topics for you.

Because I usually only offer this option to ongoing clients who have had at least one normal-length call with me, I require that you email me first ( with your story, goals, needs, and questions so that I can offer customized program options for you.

E-mail Consultation

If you just have a few questions that you only need answered in writing, I also offer single email consultations for $50. These can be good for getting feedback on your recovery plan or getting answers that you haven’t been able to find anywhere else. This is not comprehensive coaching, though, so please limit your email to¬†750 words. Simply pay through the Paypal link below and then follow the instructions here before emailing me at

If you do not want me to possibly also answer your emailed questions (anonymously) in a public video for the benefit of others, please explicitly state this in the body of your email.*

By purchasing any coaching plan, you affirm that you have read and agreed to this Acknowledgment of Coaching Services and Liability Waiver. If for any reason you are dissatisfied with whichever paid service you have last received from me, just contact me and I’ll refund your payment in full. Similarly, if you change your mind about session that you have booked, just let me know in advance for a refund.

Free Drop-in Groups

Lastly, I have teamed up with to run a twice-monthly drop-in group about pornography addiction, sexual dysfunction, and recovery. This is an informal discussion and support space in which you can learn essential knowledge about recovery and have the opportunity to share your own experiences and pose questions. Read more here.